People who choose not to buy or rent homes and spend 10 million VND each month (around US$251) to live in hotels

source of news: Toutiao.

In today's society, high housing prices in big cities put pressure on young people. They may have to work hard their whole lives and still not have enough money for a down payment to buy a house.

This reality has made many young people born in the 80s in China wonder if they should keep trying to buy a house or just enjoy life now.

Facing this pressure, some young people are trying a new way of living - a "simple" lifestyle. This means they don't buy or rent homes, but choose to live in hotels long-term. This seemingly fancy lifestyle actually becomes a way for them to escape money worries. They give up having a fixed home and are no longer tied down by material things. Instead, they seek a freer and more relaxed life. This choice not only frees them from the stress of very high mortgage debt but also brings more chances in life.

As a result, their lives become more flexible and they can easily experience different environments and lifestyles anytime, anywhere.

For busy young people who don't like housework, hotel cleaning services are great.

With some internet tricks, living in hotels can be more comfortable than renting a room and can be cheaper. However, this lifestyle has also caused debates in society.

Some people think it's young people rebelling against traditional ways of living, while others think it's a helpless act facing many social pressures today.

No matter what, this new lifestyle is quietly changing young people's life paths, and it also shows young people's attitude towards life. It's about grabbing happiness now, seeking an easier life; not caring about what others say, and listening more to your own inner voice.

*** Guo Guoguo, 29 years old, freelancer:**

Her story is a good example of young people choosing to live in hotels. She has worked around the world for many years. Because of her job, she often has to change cities. She has lived in most cities across the country except Xinjiang and Tibet. At first, Guo Guoguo, like most people, used to rent homes in each new city. However, many bad experiences with renting completely changed her mind.

She met strange roommates, was cheated by agents who took her money, and even had landlords refuse to return her deposit when it was due. These experiences made Guo Guoguo feel tired and disappointed. In 2021, when Guo Guoguo was working in Hangzhou, she started a completely new choice. She carefully searched online and after comparing many hotels, she found a hotel that rents monthly. This hotel is not a chain brand, there are only two in Hangzhou and they are run by the owner.

Each month, the hotel rent is 2800 RMB (about 10 million VND), plus 450 RMB (about 1.5 million VND) for parking, much lower than renting a nice house and all costs are saved. The hotel's many services made Guo Guoguo feel more comfortable.

There are people who clean and do laundry every day, and the hotel restaurant provides full lunch and dinner. For Guo Guoguo, who always feels bored and lazy when thinking about housework, the hotel is "heaven".

Each month, the hotel rent is 2800 RMB (about 10 million VND), plus 450 RMB (about 1.5 million VND) for parking, much lower than renting a nice house and all costs are saved. The hotel's many services made Guo Guoguo feel more comfortable.

There are people who clean and do laundry every day, and the hotel restaurant provides full lunch and dinner. For Guo Guoguo, who always feels bored and lazy when thinking about housework, the hotel is "heaven".

Each month, the hotel rent is 2800 RMB (about 10 million VND), plus 450 RMB (about 1.5 million VND) for parking, much lower than renting a nice house and all costs are saved. The hotel's many services made Guo Guoguo feel more comfortable.

There are people who clean and do laundry every day, and the hotel restaurant provides full lunch and dinner. For Guo Guoguo, who always feels bored and lazy when thinking about housework, the hotel is "heaven".

She laughs and says: "I feel my hands are for conquering the world, not for washing clothes, mopping floors or cooking. Living in a hotel is more suitable".

Guo Guoguo finds that this way of living not only reduces worries but is also as comfortable as renting a thousand-dollar house outside. She doesn't need to worry about things like utility bills, property fees, etc., and doesn't have to worry about difficult landlords.

This lifestyle gives her more freedom and ability. As time passes, Guo Guoguo likes this lifestyle more and more. She feels it's not just a choice of where to live but also an attitude towards life. It allows her to focus more on work and personal growth instead of being distracted by housework and home matters.

In February 2022, Feiyu went to Shanghai for an internship. At first, she thought about renting a place but quickly realized it wasn't a good idea.

Many houses didn't have mattresses and other furniture. Buying these things would be a waste since she couldn't take them after the internship. This made Feiyu, who likes to save money, feel it wasn't cost-effective. She also thought about a hotel-like apartment, but living alone made her worry about safety.

After thinking carefully, Feiyu decided to try staying in a hotel.

First, she looked for hotels near her company on a map. Then she carefully checked pictures, star ratings, and customer reviews of each hotel. She thought about how easy it was to get around, if there were shopping centers nearby, room size, and price. After comparing many times, she finally chose a hotel. The price talks after that showed how smart Feiyu was. She knew bargaining was a skill and she had to clearly say what she needed and bargain based on the hotel's weak points. In the end, she got a good deal with the hotel and even signed a secret agreement because the price was so low. After checking into the hotel, Feiyu found life there was more comfortable than she imagined.

The 24-hour online front desk service solved all her problems. She didn't have to worry about rent or utility bills. Almost everything was taken care of. However, what really made Feiyu feel the benefits of hotel life was the COVID outbreak in Shanghai in late March 2022.

When the government took over the hotel she was staying in, the hotel quickly arranged to move her to another hotel of the same brand. During the move, Feiyu only had to pack her personal things. The hotel staff helped with everything else.

During that time, when many people worried about not having enough food each day, Feiyu's life in the hotel wasn't affected at all. She got one meat meal, two vegetarian meals, and soup every day for 35 RMB (about 100,000 VND) delivered to her room at set times.

During that period, Feiyu didn't leave the hotel for over a month but she was very comfortable every day. After going through all this, Feiyu said: "I think young people care more and more about service. This can make you not have to worry and have a smooth life. They feel spending a bit more money is okay."

This experience not only let Feiyu enjoy the comfort of hotel life but also gave her new understanding and appreciation for life. It didn't just bring comfort and convenience but also safety and warmth in special times. Feiyu's story brings new views for young people interested in non-traditional lifestyles.

After 3 years of marriage and 11 years of living together, they always follow one idea: Don't buy a house. In their view, buying a house is like tying yourself up and they would spend their whole life paying loans. The couple used to rent a house but when the pandemic happened, they made a bold decision: Rent a discounted hotel in Hong Kong for a long time.

They rented a hotel room about 65m2, with two living rooms and one bedroom, one room with a beautiful sea view. The spacious living room lets Brian play games in his free time, the bright, clean bedroom with a big wardrobe and dressing table makes Cammy very happy.

What makes them happiest is that when staying at the hotel, they don't have to worry about water, electricity, rent or dealing with difficult landlords. The hotel's regular cleaning and room service has greatly improved their quality of life.

Facilities like the gym and swimming pool are also very complete, and it's convenient to go anywhere. Cammy and Brian believe that instead of spending money to buy a house, you should save money and travel.

Staying in a hotel not only brings a refreshing feeling but also allows them to experience different lives in different environments anytime, anywhere. This kind of freedom and ability is what they value most. Living in a hotel for a long time has also changed their spending habits.

Their life gradually became simpler, they cut many unnecessary expenses, and no longer impulse buy when shopping. Although cooking isn't convenient, they still buy small appliances like air fryers and coffee makers to cook some simple meals.

This lifestyle gives them more freedom to focus on what's important to them. They can easily move to new places for work or travel without being tied down by a house or long-term lease. The flexibility allows them to try living in different cities or countries.

For Cammy and Brian, hotel living is about prioritizing experiences over possessions. Instead of spending money on furniture and home maintenance, they prefer to spend on travel and trying new things. They feel unburdened without the responsibilities of homeownership.

While this unconventional lifestyle isn't for everyone, it works well for this couple at this stage of their lives. They appreciate the simplicity, convenience and freedom it provides. Their story shows there are alternative ways to live that can bring happiness and fulfillment outside of the traditional path of homeownership.

Because the hotel's smoke alarms are very sensitive, they also learned to control smoke and adapt to this new way of cooking. What surprised Cammy and Brian most was how much living in a hotel improved their relationship. They said that before, when renting a house, they were often bothered by the small space. But now in the hotel rooms, each room has its own space, so this problem doesn't happen anymore.

Cammy asked: "Maybe most people want stability, but we want change and the ability to adapt". This shows their main idea for choosing this lifestyle.

However, Cammy and Brian admit that sometimes they feel jealous of people who have their own homes. But they value their current freedom and happiness more and believe this lifestyle makes them very happy.

Cammy and Brian's story shows a new way of living in marriage. They have shown through their actions that happiness doesn't have to be tied to owning property but comes from loving life and respecting each other.

Their choices give a new view for young people thinking about marriage and lifestyle. Although hotel living has brought freedom and convenience to many young people, it also has some downsides.

The clearest advantage is the high level of convenience and freedom in life. Not having to worry about housework and being able to change living environments anytime makes young people feel comfortable and relaxed.

This lifestyle can also have some negative effects. Living in a hotel for a long time can make people feel lonely and like they don't belong. As Qin Ya said, sometimes she's jealous of her friends because they have their own things, but everything she uses belongs to the hotel and one day she'll have to leave.

Qinya's feelings are shared by many young people who choose this lifestyle. She said: "Although this is a new lifestyle, the feeling of wandering alone can become harder when living this way.

Every time you leave a hotel and check out, you're reminded that you have nowhere to live and this feeling can get stronger over time. For some people, not having a permanent home can affect their mental health and long-term life planning."

So, young people who choose this lifestyle need to find a balance between freedom and belonging, and need strong mental strength and clear life goals. They need to think about long-term financial planning and how to keep their identity and social relationships in a changing environment.

The rise of this hotel lifestyle shows young people's thoughts about traditional lifestyles and redefining themselves. They no longer blindly follow society's expectations but listen to their inner voice more and pursue a lifestyle that really suits them.

This attitude towards life shows how important current happiness is to young people. As mentioned at the end, facing an uncertain future, they have chosen to grab happiness now and pursue a lighter, freer life. They don't worry too much about the unclear future but focus more on how to improve their current quality of life. This lifestyle choice shows young people's thinking and courage towards life.

Through this new lifestyle, young people are exploring their own way of living, challenging traditional ideas and looking for new possibilities in life.

This hotel lifestyle brings both benefits and challenges. It offers freedom and flexibility, letting people easily move for work or travel. They don't have to worry about house maintenance or long-term commitments. This can be very appealing to those who value experiences over owning things.

However, it's important to consider the downsides too. Living in hotels can be expensive in the long run. It might be hard to feel a sense of home or community. Some people might miss having their own space to decorate and make their own.

For couples like Cammy and Brian, hotel living has improved their relationship by giving them more space and less stress about household chores. But it might not work for everyone, especially families with children who need more stability.

This lifestyle also affects how people spend money. Hotel residents often become more careful with their spending, cutting out unnecessary purchases. They focus on experiences rather than buying things, which can lead to a simpler life.

Young people choosing this lifestyle need to think carefully about their future plans. While it offers freedom now, they should consider how it fits with their long-term goals for career, family, and financial security.

The rise of hotel living shows how society is changing. Traditional ideas about success and happiness are being questioned. Young people are finding new ways to live that match their values and priorities.

This trend reflects bigger changes in how we work and live. With more jobs allowing remote work, people have more freedom to choose where they live. Hotel living is one way people are using this freedom to create a lifestyle that works for them.

In the end, whether hotel living is a good choice depends on each person's situation and goals. It offers a unique way of life that can bring happiness and new experiences. But it also comes with challenges that need to be carefully considered.

As more young people try this lifestyle, it will be interesting to see how it affects society in the long term. Will it change how we think about home and community? Will it lead to new types of housing that combine the benefits of hotels and traditional homes?

Whatever happens, the trend of hotel living shows that young people are actively shaping their lives in new and creative ways. They're not afraid to try unconventional paths to find what makes them happy and fulfilled.

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